Questions for Accountability: Sexual Purity as Shepherds

Profitable questions for an elder/shepherd leadership team to go through together with regularity.

[Or, even any discipleship relationship.]


Questions for Sexual Purity


1. Since you last answered these questions, have you viewed any immoral, impure or pornographic material online, on your cell phone or any other device in any way?

2. Since you last answered these questions, have you been in any questionable situation with a woman other than your wife that could be perceived as questionable?

3. Have you grown fond of and emotionally attached to any woman other than your wife even in the slightest?

4. Has your relationship with your wife been open in communication, healthy in sexual intimacy, and affectionate to serve her?

5. Has your mind and heart been pure as you have been out and about — work, lunches, cars, parks — as you have seen other women?

6. Have you lied about any of the answers you just gave?